Virtual Holiday Party Ideas – 10+ Festive Ways to Connect

Sometimes it’s challenging to get the whole family together for a big celebration or a holiday.

Like so many out there, we have family on both U.S. coasts (and sometime overseas), making it next to impossible to all spend a long weekend together… much less get everyone together for a holiday.

Enter the age of Zoom, Skype, Facetime, and a myriad of other great opportunities for a virtual group get together!

Whether you’re looking for ways to catch up online or you’re looking for some fun virtual holiday party ideas, we’ve got some solutions for you to try!

man and woman sitting on a couch enjoying a Zoom call on their laptop

Check out our ideas for some fun ways to spend some time together… via the power of the Internet. Just because we can’t get together in person doesn’t mean we can’t make memories in a new way!

How to Organize Virtual Holiday Party Logistics for Your Group:

Family making a call on their iPad

You might not be able to see one another face to face but your CAN make some plans to get EVERYONE onto a virtual call at the same time.

Some methods for setting up a virtual call:

  • With the Skype video chat app, group video calling for up to 50 people is available for free on just about any mobile device, tablet or computer.
  • Zoom is another free option. You can sign into Zoom yourself and then invite multiple people with a link. Note that your free Zoom call can only last for 40 minutes. Here’s a great set of tips for anyone trying to set up a Zoom call for a large group.
  • Google Meet is another option. Anyone with a Google account can create a date and time for a Google Meet and then share the link out to the family.

Make the virtual rounds, giving each group or family member the opportunity to say hello and give an update. Think of some “ice breakers” – a question everyone has to answer as they appear. Ideas include your “what’s your favorite…”, this or that (mountains or ocean), who’s the best Sesame Street character, etc. Or maybe you can have everyone wear a silly hat for the call!

Plan ahead and do some trial runs with folks that might not be familiar with how to use Zoom, Skype, Google Meet. A practice session might just be the thing that will make them excited about your TDay call.

BONUS: A virtual call invite is the perfect way to reach out to those family members and friends you may have lost touch with over the years.


Have Some Fun with Virtual Party Games

Playing online games with family and friends

Host a Zoom Scavenger Hunt. The objective is to be the first person to find a given object and present it to the crowd. You’ll want to make up a printable / screen sharable list of items and go through them one by one. This site has lots of great ideas.

There’s an online Scattergories-like game that allows for multiple players. Use this free game generator to get started. Choose how many players, the number of rounds, and the categories. You’ll then be given a link to share with your fellow players. Once everyone is there, you will all be given the same letter and you will all try to come up with a given the same letter and a list of categories to pair with your letter. For instance, the letter is O and the category is foods – my choice is olives. After time runs out, your answers are compared. Unique answers count and those given by multiple people are eliminated. It pays to think creatively!

Play a round of Most Likely To…. This game is sure to bring out the best in the crowd! You’ll take turns asking “Who’s the most likely to…” adding on things like forget a birthday, get shouted at by the parents, mostly likely to go bungee jumping, etc. Anyone can jump in with the answer – a great way to get the ball rolling! Make a list of fun questions and use this list for ideas.

There’s a random word generator that will allow you to play a virtual Pictionary-like game together. Zoom has a whiteboard feature; or use a Jamboard for Google Meet.
TIP: Using an online whiteboard with multiple players might present some challenges so be sure to consider your fellow player’s comfort level with tech and try this out for a dry run before Thanksgiving arrives.

Jackbox Games brings the fun to the party. For Jackbox games, your phone or tablet is the controller and up to 8 people can play. One player will start the game and the other players use their own mobile devices to input answers and make choices (from their own homes). After the time for answers runs out, everyone’s answer will appear to all.
Be aware that these games are more suitable for older teens and adults.
One player in your group does need to own a Jackbox product in order to host the game.
Here’s a video that will show you how to play via Zoom.


Host a Virtual Trivia Night

Use the The Random Trivia Generator to choose some categories of play and they’ll provide the questions.

The host should start off the night with Skype and will set it up for “share my screen“.

Once everyone is connected, display the questions on the screen (or, alternatively, read off the questions one by one) and accept the individual answers via text (from each player to you).

The team/player with the most correct answers wins!


Watch a Movie Together – Remotely!

two people sharing a bowl of popcorn on the couch

Fire up Teleparty, a Chrome extension that allows you to invite up to 50 people to share your screen.

Teleparty allows you to share what you’re watching on Netflix, Disney, Hulu and HBO. There’s even a chat feature that allows the fam to share quippy comments and throw some shade at Uncle Eddie.


Schedule a Virtual Cooking Lesson with Your Favorite Family Cook

Woman with phone in her kitchen

Choose a dish you’d love to learn to make and schedule a virtual cooking session with your favorite cook. You could do this days in advance or even schedule it for Thanksgiving morning!

Do some prep work by getting the recipe (via email) and then do your shopping. When the time for your virtual cooking lesson arrives, have some fun as you each make your favorite dish. The best part? You’ll have something yummy to enjoy afterwards.

This would fun to do virtually with your whole extended family, especially when everyone wants to know “how to make Grandma’s pumpkin pie”.


Plan for a “Secret Santa” Gift Exchange

care package containing a few jarred foods and a knit scarf

Everyone loves to get a surprise in the mail… and who doesn’t love a reason to send a surprise gift?!

Plan ahead and swap names for this fun “Secret Santa” type of gift swap that can happen at any time of the year.

Keep it simple and set a price limit. And don’t forget to pick an end date for mailing out the packages.

Open your gifts via FaceTime, Google Meet, or Zoom and enjoy watching everyone’s joy as they open their gifts.


Who Done It? Host a Virtual Murder Mystery Party

having fun with a virtual murder mystery party

Get together and solve a crime online!

Your organizer chooses the game / murder mystery and purchases the chosen game.

That person will then send out invites, informational downloads (such as character booklets) if needed, and organizes the virtual get together.

Here are just a few sites that offer Virtual Murder Mystery Games:

  • Red Herring Games: games include titles such as “Fiends – the One With Murder”, “It’s a Wonderful Death”, “Death Comes to Downturn”, and many more.
  • Want something a little more “hands off”? The Murder Mystery Co. will host and handle every detail for your Zoom Murder Mystery Parties.
  • Playing With Murder offers virtual party kits including “Secret Agent, Dead is Forever”, “Murder of the High Wizard”, “Murder on Two Wheels”, and more.


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